This i found on github from user kaduk when i google your error message from openssl command.
The TLS 1.3 ciphersuites are qualitatively different than ciphersuites prior to TLS 1.3 (e.g., in that the TLS 1.2 codepoints specify a key exchange mechanism but in TLS 1.3 that is separately negotiated). You have to use the -ciphersuites argument to configure them manually.
The TLS 1.3 ciphersuites are qualitatively different than ciphersuites prior to TLS 1.3 (e.g., in that the TLS 1.2 codepoints specify a key exchange mechanism but in TLS 1.3 that is separately negotiated). You have to use the -ciphersuites argument to configure them manually.